Guys love to party, and women may find this weird because they want the attention of men.
10 Reasons why guys Party so Much
1. Men are Free Spirits
Most men will do whatever they want to do, regardless of what a woman tells them to do.
Some men are like lions, they are free spirits and watchmen, who take surveillance of their environment to spot danger and attack, and neutralize such danger, to protect their pride.
As such, it would be absolute folly to try to subdue an micromanage a man to suit your needs, it would never work.
2. He Loves Entertainment and Amusement
Men love having fun, and everything isn’t about you. As such it shouldn’t be strange that he loves partying instead of being with you every time.
Women on the other hand, are wired differently. Most women want a man to talk to all the time, but most of them don’t realize that most times, men zone out from their women talks.
Unlike women, men need things that stimulate their brain, not gossiping on other people, like women do all the time.
Men think of entertainment like sports, or weird hobbies, like gathering strange things. In the mind of the man, this is party to them.
3. Pack Mentality
Men have pack and pride mentality, and want to be like other in their packs, for fear of not being left behind.
As such, you might eventually notice that your husband spends more time partying, not because he is not up to task, but because men are pack animals.
In such cases giving birth to children can switch the man from pack mentality, to protector of family.
You as a woman shouldn’t worry too much, when a man has pack mentality. Oftentimes the man will grow out of this phase after a while.
4. Youthful Strength
Youth of every human is the prime of a human where the human has lots of strength. Youths are cans of raging hormones, and need ways and avenues to disperse such energy.
Most times the only way, this energy can be dissipated is through, partying, where they can dance for hours, and exhaust their raging hormones.
So check on the age of your hubby, if he is still young between the ages of 20 – 34, he might still have lots of pent up youthful energy that can only be dissipated by partying.
Nevertheless, like all things in life, this phase also ends eventually.
5. Curiosity of Youth
Another cause of youthful exuberance. Like a cat, men can sometimes be very curious creatures.
This is caused by the need for a being to learn and understand its surroundings.
As such, young men, out of curiosity can engage in parties for the initial gratification it gives then, and the curiosity of being cool.
Nevertheless, in time they learn to out grow those feelings, especially if external stimuli from their surroundings jolts them to reality.
Also, women are more emotional more matured than men when young. Although men become more wise than them in later years.
Maturity of women at a young age, is caused by nature, to equip women with basic wisdom to maneuver through tasking daily situations, like giving birth and nurturing children.
Men on the other hand learn through experience and hardship, but like all through wisdom, the easy way is the hard way, and in later years, men become extremely wise, especially those men, who have had lots of experiences.
So if you are a woman, give it time, he will come around, he might be big, but he still has the emotional maturity of an adolescence.
6. He Loves Narcotics
Narcotics are substances which gives high, and skew impression of reality.
Sometimes men love to party because they are addicted to narcotics, and use the cover of party to fulfil their drug lust, for narcotics.
Nevertheless, addiction to narcotics, can have underlying issues:
- He may be pressure and to disassociate himself from reality he turns to drugs.
- He is just addicted
If the addiction to narcotics is caused by external stress, you can find ways to relieve such stress from the man, like stopping to nag, encouraging him with positive words, in his times of peril, encouraging him to workout to relieve the stress.
If he is just addicted, you might have to talk firmly to him, about visiting a psychiatrist.
7. Not Yet matured
Sometimes men love to party because they are immature.
What many people don’t realize is that physical age, is different from mental age.
There are many people that are old physically, but are still children in their mind, and the opposite is the case. There are people that are children physically, but are adults in their minds.
For this reason, you can’t judge a book by its cover, because you might be dealing with a child who managed to put a ring on your finger.
Some men just love to cheat.
To fulfil their darkest desires, the will find every means to reach the club and party so they can cheat.
They will go to every length to cover their tracks and will say they just love to party, which of course is entirely false.
To them women are like meals and they need to have a taste of every meal to feel important.
Nobody can spot these men, especially the slickest, because women for some reason, will go after a guy that other women desire, especially married men.
After all, who wants to date a loser?
9. Loves Dancing
Dancing is an ancient activity in which an individual moves their body parts, especially to a tone or rhythm.
Some men love to dance, especially the bobbing and weaving in parties, and for the fun of it, will strife to show off their moves, because they are glory huggers.
10. Loves Drinking
Sometime men love to party because they love to drink alcohol.
As simple as this is, some men, love to drink wine, and parties, is where you can get free booze.
As such, they would be found in places where people are partying.